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Vintage Vignette: March on Washington

Vintage Vignettes glimpse into the Communicationist’s past, one to ten years ago from this day.

On this day in 2003 I marched on Washington.

The war in Iraq was about to begin and I could not stand by and let it happen without raising my voice for peace. I took a bus from Connecticut with two high school friends and it was one of the most inspiring experiences of my life. There were hundreds of thousands of people. It was one of the largest protests this country had seen in decades. I saw Rev. Jesse Jackson (and countless other people I never expected to get to see in real life) speak. I felt like I was part of something bigger than me. I felt a sense of community with everyone else there. I felt like I was making a difference.

Many of my positive feelings were shattered when the war began several weeks later anyway. But after my initial mourning, my two friends and I started a club at school called “Students for Peace.” We participated in nation-wide calls to action such as sending bags of rice to the White House with a message attached asking the government to send the people of Iraq this food instead of using weapons against them. We held public forums for teens to debate the politics and morality of the situation. We sold yellow ribbons to show we were supporting the troops by wanting to bring them home. The club quickly grew to the largest on campus with about one third of all students involved.

Using my passion about the cause for something positive helped me through a time when I started off feeling helpless. Don’t like the way things are? Do something to change it! You may not see direct results right away or ever from being one person trying to change something much bigger, but you’ll feel better knowing that you are living your life trying to make the world a better place.

Vintage Vignette: Civil Unions Article

Vintage Vignettes glimpse into the Communicationist’s past, one to ten years ago from this day.

On this day in 2005, I had an op-ed published in the Hartford Courant. Same-sex marriage wasn’t legal in Connecticut like it is today and I wrote about the ever-evolving history of the institution and why civil unions are not an acceptable substitute for full marriage equality. Looking back on this is a lesson in how quickly our own views can evolve (I already disagree with some of my parallels and terms), but I’m proud that I was able to do my part to get the message out to well over a million readers in my home state. Here is the link to the full piece and an excerpt:

I spent this past summer in Paraguay, where I met an American gay man who was living there with his Paraguayan partner. The couple met in the United States and they wanted to get married. But when the American’s partner’s visa expired, the only way they could continue to be together was to leave the country. If they had been straight, this American would not have had to make the choice between the partner he loves and the country he loves.

Many of us in Connecticut are wondering where civil unions, which became legal in the state today, come into all of this. Simply put, civil unions are separate and unequal. Some people call them a compromise, but when we compromise civil rights we create second-class citizens. That is what civil unions do: State that gays and lesbians are not worthy of full rights. As long as same-sex marriage is illegal, we will not be able to call ourselves a nation that is just.

Vintage Vignette: Spanish in Spain

Vintage Vignettes glimpse into the Communicationist’s past, one to ten years ago from this day.

This time of year in 2007, I was nine months in to my year in Europe. I was living in Spain and completely in love with being able to speak Spanish every day. I was also writing my first blog, and I’d like to share an excerpt from it with you in today’s Vintage Vignette:

For me, learning another language is like building a new life. Every time I speak Spanish or listen to Spanish, each word has so much more meaning than most in my native language. It’s because each time you learn a word, you make a memory. I learned the word for terrorist attack when I was in Spain and the terrorist bombing on the Madrid train happened. I learned the word for popcorn the first time I went to the movies in a Spanish-speaking country. I learned the word for red-head trying to describe my family to the interns in Paraguay. I learned the words for clubs and spades playing poker in Asunción. I learned the word for “done up” in my reading for my Social Movements class describing a drag queen at the 1993 March of Washington for gay rights. I learned the word for execution yesterday collecting signatures with Amnesty International against the death penalty. I learned the word for understand in Ecuador the summer before I started studying Spanish when a shop-keeper kept asking me if I understood (I didn’t). I learned the word for stamps sending postcards home from Puerto Rico. I learned the word for canopy in the rainforest in Costa Rica. My friends and I learned the word for license plate in Bilbao trying to figure out the system to pay for parking the other day (you have to punch your plate number into a machine and we were running up to people on the street asking them when the heck the directions said because the Guggenheim was only open another hour and we had to get there). Every time I use or hear one of those words, I think of when I learned it.

Then there are other memories that go with other words. Like the first time a student of Spanish asked me a word they didn’t know and I did know it (a Swiss girl asked me how to say wheat). Then there are words that don’t have translations to English like the word for the time sitting around the table talking after you’ve eaten that I learned living with the family in Sevilla. Or the word for a big tango hall that I learned in Buenos Aires. When I’m trying to figure out which grammatical tense to use, I think of the teacher who taught it to me. For me, Spanish is a collection of the last 5 years of my life. That’s what makes it so alive for me…Each word is an experience. Learning a language is just like life…You get frustrated, you learn, you grow. There are little triumphs (the first time I was able to talk politics in Spanish) and hang-ups (for some reason I could never remember the word for broom until I finally mastered it a few months ago). Spanish is a whole other life within a life for me.

Vintage Vignette: Falafel and a Film

Vintage Vignettes glimpse into the Communicationist’s past, one to ten years ago from this day.

On this day in 2005, the Palestianian-Israeli Peace Alliance (PIPA) held its first event. PIPA is a group I started at Boston University with my freshman year roommate. I, a young woman with Israeli family, and she, a young woman with Palestinian family, were randomly placed together. We saw an opportunity to create a forum where people from both sides could have a dialogue. Over the two years I served as President of the club, I saw people from the region have a conversation with their peers from “the other side” for the first time in their lives, on the other side of the world from their homes. We had events that ranged from discussions to cultural parties to outing off-campus to see speakers or movies. PIPA still exists at BU to this day and has expanded its work off-campus.

We had no idea if the club would get off the ground or not, and were thrilled when dozens of students turned out to Falafel and a Film. We screened Promises (trailer below), an Oscar-nominated documentary that allows the children of the region to speak about their opinions on the conflict and eventually meet each other. They speak wisely: “In war, both sides suffer. Maybe there’s a ‘winner’ but what’s a winner? People on both sides die. Both sides lose.”

Vintage Vingette: MSPCA Walk for Animals

Vintage Vignettes glimpse into the Communicationist’s past, one to ten years ago from this day.

On this day in 2009, I stepped in as the Volunteer Coordinator for the day of the annual Walk for Animals, a fundraising event for the Massachusetts Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals. It was a fun day with lots of cute dogs and excited volunteers. I wasn’t involved with the volunteer recruitment or event planning — I had only emailed a few times with the coordinator to get my instructions. I got there early to set up and found myself organizing the volunteers who were there to help with set-up. Our labors produced this tent with Dunkin’ Donuts:

Me where I feel at home

Volunteers checked in with me to get their assignment and then again whenever they had completed a task. I was on Walkie Talkies with the MSPCA staff and would re-direct volunteers as necessary. Set-up and clean-up were the busiest times, and check-in was my favorite part of the event. I really like greeting people at the beginning of the day. The MSPCA passed their goal of $250,ooo and the event was a success!

Vintage Vignette: Pink Point in Sofia

Vintage Vignettes glimpse into the Communicationist’s past, one to ten years ago from this day.

On this day in 2007, I was doing street outreach in Sofia, Bulgaria. It was my last weekend of a 2-month internship with the country’s only LGBT organization and the whole team (all three employees, a few board members, two summer interns, and a couple of volunteers) pulled together to raise awareness in a park with a lot of foot traffic in the downtown area of the capital city.

We set up a tent called the Pink Point. Outside of this tent we handed out brochures and engaged people in conversation. Inside the tent we had displays and activities. Number one challenge for me in this outreach event: Not speaking Bulgarian.

So how did I and the other international intern get around this? First of all, we had print materials in Bulgarian to hand out. We learned how to say “Want to learn about equality for all Bulgarians?” (or something like that) and if they said “Da” we would just point to the tent where they could talk to the Bulgarian staff. Ahead of time we were able to contribute in other ways by brainstorming the activities and discussing logistics at the office in English. It worked out pretty well and it just goes to show that communication is more than language — Smiling, open body language, and lots of nodding can go a long way.